I used to think that I didn't want to have any children.
It wasn't until I reached my 30's that it suddenly hit me; I did want one (maybe 3 or 4) afterall.
I used to joke that I only had one 'Golden Egg' left - luckily Violet turned out to be that Golden Egg.
Though when she reached the age of two I began to worry. I'd read stories about the terrible two's. Friends and family had even warned me about this tumultuous chapter in a toddlers life.
I needn't have worried. Violet is a joy. I won't lie and say that she never cries, or throws the most fantastic strops, but she's a funny, bright, little person, who makes me giggle everyday with her antics and funny sayings.
Today I thought I'd share with you some of the funny little things that have happened recently.
When we visited a place called Coughton Court a few weeks ago, she touched one of the paintings hanging on the wall and set the alarms off. I could tell by the look on her dad's face, that he wanted the floor to open up and swallow him.
The next day we visited Baddesley Clinton, and thought we'd walk round the house. Whilst walking down the stairs into one of the rooms, Violet shouted "I love Kung Fu". She's a big Kung Fu Panda fan.
Each morning I have to pretend to phone Space Command, speak to Buzz Lightyear and ask him to come and play. I then have to try and sneak a Buzz Lightyear toy out of the front door without making a noise, press the door bell, then run and pretend I'm putting clothes away in the bedroom quick sharp before Violet comes running down the corridor to find me, and tell me that Buzz is at the front door (you have never seen such excitement). She then sits on the sofa with Buzz and they watch Toy Story or Toy Story 2 together. .
Violet thinks that Buzz is real and believes that he lands his spaceship in the flat's carpark and zooms back off into space when his visit is over. Even when my friend came to stay with her little boy the other week, Buzz still had to visit. My friend's little boy was out of nappies, but the excitement of seeing Buzz Lightyear at the front door was too much excitement for a little 3 year old and he forgot himself for a moment
One of the funniest things about Violet, and one of the things I have to explain to everyone we spend more than half an hour with, is that she calls a muslin square 'mummy'.
Let me explain.
When Violet was very small I used to play peek-a-boo with her. I used to put one of these muslin squares on my head then say 'where's mummy gone?'. Violet, as with all babies, loved playing this game. It wasn't until a few months later that I realised what had happened. We where playing peek-a-boo, but this time I was hiding behind one of Violet's teddies. I asked her where mummy was and Violet crawled off in the opposite direction. Wondering what was going on, I looked around teddy only to find Violet lifting up her muslin square and saying 'mummy'. Now, when Violet is tired or upset she asks for her mummy, but it's not me she wants, it's a muslin square. I've been given some very strange looks when Violet's been asking for her mummy and there's me handing over a grotty, bit of cloth.
Let me explain.
When Violet was very small I used to play peek-a-boo with her. I used to put one of these muslin squares on my head then say 'where's mummy gone?'. Violet, as with all babies, loved playing this game. It wasn't until a few months later that I realised what had happened. We where playing peek-a-boo, but this time I was hiding behind one of Violet's teddies. I asked her where mummy was and Violet crawled off in the opposite direction. Wondering what was going on, I looked around teddy only to find Violet lifting up her muslin square and saying 'mummy'. Now, when Violet is tired or upset she asks for her mummy, but it's not me she wants, it's a muslin square. I've been given some very strange looks when Violet's been asking for her mummy and there's me handing over a grotty, bit of cloth.
Ahhhhh - she really loves that mummy of hers.